Obstacle 10: Backbiting

:Gossip is the art of saying nothing in a way that leaves practically nothing unsaid.” ~Walter Winchell

Backbiting burns the heart. Backbiting (gossiping) minutely destroys both the listener and the gossiper; “sharing a secret” causes trust to be shattered.

Passing on information about another can be tamed by pledging to neither hear nor pass on gossip. It is a challenge to maintain a no gossip rule; however to see no evil, hear no evil nor speak no evil minimizes disagreements and fosters lasting, trusting relationships.

To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves~Will Durant

Compliment rather than gossip and see how much better you feel. Check out how much more energy you have to work on yourself and contribute to the well-being of society.

Opportunity Step: Speak only kind, praiseworthy words today.

(This is an excerpt from the acclaimed book, Climb Every Obstacle: Eliminate Your Limits! (www.climbeveryobstacle.com). Buy your copy for the rest of the story!

 

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